Guys, are you noticing that it's taking a bit longer these days to, well, go? Don't be embarrassed. Every other man your age is probably having the same problem. Technically, you're dealing with benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH), commonly known as an enlarged prostate. It's the most common health problem in men 60 and older. You can go the medication/surgery route for a remedy, but you might be able to handle yourself by doing the following.